Wednesday, September 12, 2012

delayed Beef

ok, so i know this is a little delayed
as the olympics have been over 
for a while now, but whatever. 
this has been on my mind off and on 
since and I'm just now sitting down 
to right about it.
my family really enjoys watching 
the olympics and this year was 
no different.
sometimes we got sucked in and 
would look like zombies
in front of the tv
and other times we would just 
keep it on for background noise, 
until something caught our attention.
one night i was just walking through
the house and was stopped by 
a commentator talking 
about reese hoffa's (US shot put) "A-mom".
k and i both stopped, 
stunned in our tracks,
and were like 
"A-mom, what the hell is an A-mom....
[insert sudden rage]...why the hell would 
that announcer just call his adoptive mother
his A-mom?!" 
seriously?
i bet he never once
called the mother that 
raised and loved him, "A-mom"
as the mother of an adopted child,
i was supremely insulted and pissed off
that his mother was categorized 
as an "A-mom" rather than just his mother.
we have to deal with 
this sort of stuff 
more often than i like. 
i would like it if people 
were more aware that
no two families are the same.
i thought that the commentator
was tactless. 
i wish that adopted kids 
could just be kids and not labelled..."adopted kids"
or kids with a story!
there's my beef. 
if there's anything 
i would like you to take 
from my rant....it's this:
please teach your children 
that people and families
come in all different
shapes and sizes. 

here's the infamous clip:


until next time,
b

1 comment:

  1. That is pretty strange. I don't think that I have ever heard the term "A-mom" before. Is that common? Anyway, it seems really weird that they would say that.

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